Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Thursday, December 31, 2015
Happy Birthday Connie Willis
Author Connie Willis turns seventy today. With her upbeat, humorous personality, she is always a popular person at science fiction conventions. She has a unique way of looking at her people that helps you identify with and love her characters. Many of them take place in England, and involve time travel. She seems particularly interested in the World War II era, and the trials that the populace of London underwent during that period.
Sadly, those time travel stories never involve my favorite Time Lord, Doctor Who. Still, I love how she often references other stories in her fiction. This gives me an idea of her influences, and gives me ideas for future reading.
On second thought, maybe that's not such a great thing. I already have too many stories and authors that I want to read! (A few of those stories are even written by Connie Willis!)
Her collection Miracle and Other Christmas Stories is well worth reading at this time of year. Even if the actual day has passed, the characters, ideas, and themes in her stories will sweep you away with her love for this magical season. Happy Birthday, Connie!
Dragon Dave
Related Dragon Cache entries
On her story "Miracle"
True Humility For Christmas
Opening Our Eyes to the Miraculous
Saving the Environment at Christmas
Achieving Our Christmas Goals
Our Heart’s Desire
Wednesday, December 23, 2015
Letters to a Prison Inmate: Part 2
Since the midweek service I referenced in Part 1, I attended a Sunday worship service. That day, I spoke with several ladies, one of whom I might never have spoken with had I not attended the midweek service. When I mentioned that my wife had recently gotten me into sketching, she related an experience in which she brought cookies and other baked treats to people in prison. On that visit, a member of her group got talking with one prisoner, and he showed them sketches that he had made. I found her recollection especially interesting, as I never mentioned to her that a member of my extended family was currently in prison.
Anyway, back to my letter.
As the woman I met in church described the photorealistic drawings of the prison inmate she met, I couldn't help reflect on my own poor efforts. While most people are complementary about my sketches, I know I have a long way to go in developing my abilities. Still, I know what I really need to do is just set aside a little time each day. Anyone can draw, you just have to practice, as artist Mike Bocianowsky once told me.
And anyone can write a letter, pay a visit, or do something nice for someone who feels isolated and alone. Especially during the Christmas season.
Anyway, back to my letter.
In the first part of November, our gym closed for
refurbishment. As I wasn’t able to follow my normal routine, I did more walking,
and did more exercises like pushups and sit-ups at home. Later in the month,
when I visited the doctor for my annual physical, I weighed exactly the same as
last year. I worked hard to lose a lot of weight several years ago, and since
then I’ve gradually put on a few pounds each year. So with the additional food
and treats that accompany the holidays, keeping the same weight seemed like a
triumph.
Despite the apparent victory during his last hospital stay,
[a family member] has since suffered several infections, and returned to the
hospital for short visits. Last weekend a visit to the doctor’s office led to another overnight hospital visit. Why do you think sickness so often accompanies the Christmas season? Is
it just all the good food, or something else?
Yesterday my wife conscripted me. She prepared a ham, and I cooked it
according to her instructions. She arrived home in time to help me carve and
lay the meat in a serving dish. Then she took it back to work, where she oversaw
a potluck meal for fifty-plus workers. I also enjoyed ham for lunch. Suddenly,
I don’t feel so out-of-step with the Christmas season.
I hope this letter finds you well, and that you are also
able to celebrate the Christmas season, in whatever manner your current
situation allows.
And anyone can write a letter, pay a visit, or do something nice for someone who feels isolated and alone. Especially during the Christmas season.
Monday, December 21, 2015
Letters To A Prison Inmate: Part 1
Earlier this year, I learned that a member of my extended family was in jail. After a few months, another family member asked me to write to him. I've never really been close to him, so it felt strange to write him a letter. Eventually, I decided that, were the situation reversed, I'd appreciate receiving letters from anyone, regardless of our previous level of rapport. So I started writing to him.
As this month's letter deals with the topic of Christmas, the holiday season, and where I seem to be at this year, I thought I would share a portion of it with you.
In case you're wondering, I wasn't overpraising that night we spent with this man and his family. As his invitation came at a time of great personal loss, his efforts really meant a lot. But then, including others in our lives, either over meals, or simply through a letter, can often mean more to them than we could ever imagine.
Dragon Dave
As this month's letter deals with the topic of Christmas, the holiday season, and where I seem to be at this year, I thought I would share a portion of it with you.
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| Last year's Dalek-themed Christmas Tree |
Dear ______,
Do you ever feel as if time is speeding past you? Last
Friday I attended a midweek worship service, and saw blue cloths draped over the altar and the lecterns.
Amid all the hubbub of everyday life, we missed out on several weeks of services.
The angel embroidered on those blue cloths shook me. I then noticed the
Christmas tree, and the Advent wreath and candles, reminded myself it was
mid-December, and wondered: where have I been?
It’s not as if I was oblivious to the Christmas season. My
wife and I went shopping on Thanksgiving weekend, and have since procured more
presents online. We’ve listened to holiday music, driven around to see all
the lights and decorations, and watched a Christmas movie. But my wife has been
busy at work, and gone away on travel several times, so we haven’t set up a
tree or decorated the house. On one level, I knew it was Christmas time. On
another, I was oblivious. Strange, eh?
Speaking of Christmas seasons, one memory I hold dear is the
Christmas Eve you and your wife invited us over on Christmas Eve. Your wife
made us a multi-ethnic holiday meal, with different meats and traditional side
dishes, as well as tamales, rice, and beans. We enjoyed sharing food,
conversation, and presents with you and your family that evening. Thanks again
for including us.
In case you're wondering, I wasn't overpraising that night we spent with this man and his family. As his invitation came at a time of great personal loss, his efforts really meant a lot. But then, including others in our lives, either over meals, or simply through a letter, can often mean more to them than we could ever imagine.
Dragon Dave
Thursday, December 25, 2014
Evocative Christmas Ornaments
This year, we didn't decorate the house until the week before Christmas. With our busy schedule, we debated whether we should even bother. But ultimately, we did, and the process of setting up the tree reminded me of some people who had once been very special to us.
But appearances can be deceiving, and no one, not even talented individuals with telepathic abilities, can predict the future. As time passed, we learned that they continually argued with each other. At first, these arguments didn't seem important. But over time, it grew clear that neither was happy with the other. Eventually, she asked him for a divorce. He asked her to stay with him for the sake of their children.
In the United States, no person can force another to remain married to someone they no longer love. So she pursued the divorce, and he reluctantly accommodated her desire to ensure joint-custody of the children. In our conversations, he asserted that, had he lived in a country that required both parties agree to the divorce, he would have refused her request. But he didn't, so he decided to end their marriage amicably.
She hooked up with her BFF, a young woman with two children who was also extricating herself from a failed marriage. Meanwhile, he maintained that he would never marry again, that it was wrong to remarry, regardless of fault or circumstance. Then, he joined the Catholic Church, and met a beautiful young woman with three children from a previous marriage. A priest there told him he could get an annulment and marry again, that it would be okay to do so. After investigating Catholic teachings on this matter, he concluded that the priest was correct, that he and his wife had never truly been married in the eyes of God. So he sought an annulment, and married for the second time.
She hooked up with her BFF, a young woman with two children who was also extricating herself from a failed marriage. Meanwhile, he maintained that he would never marry again, that it was wrong to remarry, regardless of fault or circumstance. Then, he joined the Catholic Church, and met a beautiful young woman with three children from a previous marriage. A priest there told him he could get an annulment and marry again, that it would be okay to do so. After investigating Catholic teachings on this matter, he concluded that the priest was correct, that he and his wife had never truly been married in the eyes of God. So he sought an annulment, and married for the second time.
For a variety of reasons, we lost touch with these intelligent, charismatic people. So I don't know what happened to the ornament we made for them, or if either of them still have it. But wherever they are, and whatever they are doing, I hope they're happily and harmoniously celebrating Christmas with the special people in their lives.
I'm glad I took the time to decorate the house for Christmas this year.
Dragon Dave
Friday, December 12, 2014
Breaking Out the Christmas Plates
Red: I'm glad you finally decided to break out the Christmas plates. They make Master's breakfast look so colorful and Red, Red RED!
Christmas Tree: Yes, and my olfactory sensors are overloading on the aroma from this apple fritter.
Red: Look! Master was so overwhelmed with our breakfast, he gave us this little squash to share, after we cook the big one for him.
Christmas Tree: That's the holiday spirit for you. It promotes generosity, and Exterminates, Exterminates, EXTERMINATES selfishness!
Red: My only concern is that Master is eating too healthy. Aside from this half-burger, his plate is loaded with vegetables.
Christmas Tree: Yes, as our purpose is to Exterminate, Exterminate, EXTERMINATE humans, this poses some difficulty.
Red: Perhaps we should seek to Dominate, Dominate, DOMINATE him instead.
Christmas Tree: Good plan. How can we achieve our objective?
Red: By overwhelming him with holiday sweets and treats?
Christmas Tree: Excellent plan. I think he'll find this cranberry white chocolate cookie an overwhelming temptation. By the time we've finished with him, he'll be our devoted slave.
Red & Christmas Tree: Enslave all Humans! Appeal to their weaknesses, and by New Years Day, we shall be the MASTERS OF EARTH!!!
Christmas Tree: Before we serve this cookie, do you think Master would mind if we had a nibble?
Red: I don't see why not. It's not as if one small flavor assessment could lead us, the superior species, to devour the entire cookie.
Red & Christmas Tree Dalek
Monday, December 8, 2014
Powering Through the Holidays
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| Iron-Dalek powers up the Christmas tree |
At times, we all need a little help to get through each day. Some seek professional counseling, or prescribed medication. A more holistic approach is to seek out humor and inspiration to enlighten you spirit. One sure source is my wife's companion blog, Pocket Dalek and Friends. Last year, she featured a Dalek Advent calendar. This December, she's exploring the Twelve days of Christmas, Dalek-style.
So before the load of responsibilities and To-Do Lists overwhelm you, check out Pocket Dalek and Friends. I prescribe regular doses of the Pocket Dalek and Friends to alleviate seasonal anxiety and stress. Following Pocket Dalek and Friends may not make the world a brighter place, but it can help you see it at its best, and for all it can be.
Banish your blues!
Destroy your despondency!
Massacre your melancholia, sadness, and gloom!
Exterminate your bad attitudes!
Enlighten your holidays!
Energize your days,
with
Pocket Dalek and Friends!!!
Dragon Dave
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http://pocketdalek.blogspot.com
Tuesday, December 24, 2013
The Dalek Invasion of Christmas
'Twas the day before Christmas,
And all through the room,
Not a creature was stirring,
No spaceships went boom.
The Daleks were set
On the limbs with care,
In the hope that the Doctor,
Soon would be there.
Then unto my eyes
Such a Dalek appeared,
Such a Dalek appeared,
It climbed to the top,
And a clamor was heard.
And a clamor was heard.
A fight ensued
Like few humans have seen,
Like few humans have seen,
The tree glowed with laser blasts,
Blue and yellow, red and green.
"Exterminate, Exterminate,
Exterminate all,"
Their voices rang out;
They filled the hall.
By nightfall the battle
Had been put to rest,
And silence descended,
For they all were the best.
Dragon Dave
Friday, December 20, 2013
Dalek Photo Shoots & Christmas Cookies
Pocket: Yes, that looks good. Now top it with whipped cream and take it out.
Denim: Um, I'm not sure…that it's good enough for Master. Don't you think we should taste it first?
Pocket: Don't be silly. Mistress made the tapioca, so of course it's good enough. Now get a move on. I'll get started on the cookie plate.
Denim: You know, this job requires a Dalekanium-hard constitution. It's a good thing I'm impervious to temptation.
Pocket: Oh good, just in time. Take this out so Master can enjoy these with his pudding.
Denim: Haven't you given him too many cookies?
Pocket: He won't eat them all. I just want to offer him a little variety.
Denim: But they look so good! I mean, they might tempt Master beyond his ability to resist. What if he eats them all, and then gets sick? He would blame us for giving him too many--
Pocket: Don't be silly. By the way, has Fury arrived for his photo shoot yet?
Denim: Yes, he's in Make-up now.
Pocket: Make-up? He's a fearless leader. He's got an eyepatch. Why does he need time in Make-up?
Denim: I think he just wants to look his best for tomorrow's appearance in your Advent Calendar. Oh, and he's complaining that you didn't furnish his dressing room with red and green Mini M&Ms.
Pocket: Red and green Mini M&Ms? That was never in the contract! Why is it always the tough ones who need the most pampering? I just hope he's finished writing his introduction. I'd better go. Now get those cookies out before Master finishes his pudding!
Denim: You know, I'm sure Master will appreciate my efforts to reduce his Christmas temptations. After all, he doesn't have a Dalekanium-hard constitution like me.
Pocket & Denim Dalek
P.S. Don't miss Fury Dalek's Advent Calendar appearance tomorrow at http://pocketdalek.blogspot.com
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Motorcycles and Stockings: Part 2
It's sometimes difficult to look backward, and fully trust in your memory. I'm left with very little that I actually remember of Lucy Warren. I know she attended my grandparents' church, and I believe she was a friend of my aunt. I remember that she drove a beat-up white van to church, and mentally picture her wearing darker, more masculine clothing as depicted in the postcard. I remember her as being rather quiet: not unfriendly, just serious. But much of this, especially regarding her clothing and demeanor, could be my mind filling in the blanks as best it can.
One thing I know is she knitted this Christmas stocking for me. I don’t remember receiving it, so she probably made it when I was quite young. I’m not sure what prompted her gift, although everyone likes giving and making things for babies. She would have made this after her second transcontinental ride, so perhaps she gave up motorcycling after that, and took up knitting instead. Or maybe she just had more time after she retired, and took up another hobby.
There’s a great story buried in the past, about a woman who did something difficult, arduous, rare, and (at least for her time) masculine. Yet she also did something (that we typically regard as) feminine, with a great degree of skill, making an item with such skill that it became a treasured keepsake, even in those years when I forgot who gave it to me, and in so doing forgot about her.
If you’ve done something interesting, share your experience with others. You may not think it's important, but anything unique that you've experienced will be of interest to others, and may serve as a source of inspiration. I wish I knew more of Lucy Warren’s story, both about her life, her interest, and her two cross-country trips. I can’t help but think that those trips would have been interesting to hear her talk about. From the postcard, I can't even tell what types of motorcycles "The Snapper" and "Cinderella" were. But at least I’ve got the postcard, and my Christmas stocking, to remember her by.
Dragon Dave
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
Motorcycles and Stockings: Part 1
When my grandmother transitioned into a nursing
home, we had to go through her house.
Among her possessions we found this postcard. Age had literally eaten away at it, but it
looked interesting, and I recognized the woman in it, so we packed it away
among the things to go through later.
The picture intrigued my wife, so she did a simple Internet
search, and found a paragraph on the woman in the June 1963 issue of “American
Motorcyclist” magazine.
According to the article, she traversed the contiguous
forty-eight states twice on a motorcycle, once in 1925, and again in 1962. She never suffered significant mechanical
difficulty during these trips, and averaged 350 miles per day. This would suggest that she knew how to
repair and maintain her bikes, and kept them in good condition. It also suggests that she kept herself in
good constitution, as riding a motorcycle can be more wearing that driving a
car. Imagine riding across our nation,
in glaring sun, blustery winds, or driving rain! Imagine how many hours each day she rode, to
average so many miles!
On her first motorcycle ride, when she rode the motorcycle she called "The Snapper," work had not yet begun on the Empire State Building in New York. The faces of American presidents had yet to be carved into Mount Rushmore. Hoover Dam had not been built. Nor had the famous Route 66 been established. On her second trip, aboard "Cinderella," she would have noticed large-scale changes to our nation, such as the interstate highway system in its infancy, an utterly transformed Las Vegas, and the other examples mentioned. Had she visited Cape Canaveral, as I did on my recent trip, she would have witnessed how the government began using it as a missile test range, and the birth of our nation's space program.
When she set out for her first journey, Hawaii and Alaska had not been made states, so she visited every state in the union. On her second ride, our nation had grown not just by two states, but from a population increase of fifty percent. She would have noticed dramatic changes as towns and cities grew to accommodate such population growth.
Imagine what those trips must have been like for her. They sound like incredible journeys.
This post will conclude tomorrow.
Dragon Dave
On her first motorcycle ride, when she rode the motorcycle she called "The Snapper," work had not yet begun on the Empire State Building in New York. The faces of American presidents had yet to be carved into Mount Rushmore. Hoover Dam had not been built. Nor had the famous Route 66 been established. On her second trip, aboard "Cinderella," she would have noticed large-scale changes to our nation, such as the interstate highway system in its infancy, an utterly transformed Las Vegas, and the other examples mentioned. Had she visited Cape Canaveral, as I did on my recent trip, she would have witnessed how the government began using it as a missile test range, and the birth of our nation's space program.
When she set out for her first journey, Hawaii and Alaska had not been made states, so she visited every state in the union. On her second ride, our nation had grown not just by two states, but from a population increase of fifty percent. She would have noticed dramatic changes as towns and cities grew to accommodate such population growth.
Imagine what those trips must have been like for her. They sound like incredible journeys.
This post will conclude tomorrow.
Dragon Dave
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Monday, December 31, 2012
Winding Down the Year with Wienerschnitzel
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| A Beef Tamale coated with Chili and Cheese |
When we lived in the house where we raised our dog Sport
(Covered in “On Rescuing Dogs: Part 1”), my parents would usually go out with
their friends from church after the Sunday and Wednesday evening services. One night, at the nearby Wienerschnitzel, the
pastor, his wife, and the others egged my mother into pouring a few drops of
her coffee cup onto my father’s head. He
responded by upending his cup over her precious hairdo. Gallant his
action might not have been, but my father wasn’t a pushover. He never backed down to anyone.
We never go to our local Wienerschnitzel, as it’s a rather
primitive affair, only offering drive-up service, and a few tables
outside. But there’s one in Orange
County that has a nice restaurant. When
we’re up that way, we sometimes stop for lunch. They have a nice range of items, and dining
there is a rare pleasure.
Before we left for Florida, we got an advertisement heralding
Wienerschnitzel’s new beef tamale. I
searched for restaurants in Florida, but the chain’s reach doesn’t extend that
far. Smothered in chili and cheddar
cheese, the tamale looked terrific. But
they would only be serving it during the holidays, and I doubted we would make
it up the restaurant in Orange County before they stopped serving it.
After we returned from Florida, our days were filled with
all our normal tasks, plus getting ready for Christmas. Finally, at the end of last week, my wife
made an extraordinary suggestion: that we pick up necessary supplies at the grocery
store, then stop by Wienerschnitzel for their tamales. We never get restaurant food To Go, as by the time we get home, and get everything else ready to eat, the food has
gone cold. But this time, it seemed the
ideal solution. After waiting in line
for about ten minutes (despite the fact that there was only one car ahead of
us), we drove slowly home in the darkness, gazing at the glowing Christmas
displays. I had to take the bag off my
lap and set it on the floor: they were that hot. They still got a little cold by the time we
arrived home, and got the rest of our dinner ready, but the microwave warmed them sufficiently, and they proved as delicious as we had imagined they would.
It’s been a tough week or so since then. Apart from expeditions to the doctor and the
pharmacies, we haven’t left the house due to lingering illness. But today we ventured out, as we needed a few
items from the grocery store. We decided
against sitting in a restaurant, where the temperature might prove cooler than
at home, and the other diners object to my wife’s ragged cough. So we stopped by Wienerschnitzel
on the way home. This time, we picked up
two corndogs to go with the tamales. The
cornmeal covering the corndogs was denser and sweeter than that of the tamales,
and the two items went perfectly together, providing a wonderful meal.
Mexican restaurants usually cook up special tamales for the
Christmas season, but I don’t think I’ve ever enjoyed them covered in hot
sauce or salsa nearly as much as I do smothered in chili and melted
cheddar cheese. If you’re looking for a
special dish to ring in the New Year with, you could do worse than the chili
cheese tamales from Wienerschnitzel.
Like say, Pimento Cheese sandwiches.
No, not the Sandwich demon! Alas,
mention of that dreaded delicacy (and how I was once cursed with it) must wait for now.
Please, don't everyone cheer at once.
Dragon Dave
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